Proven Relationships

Relationships are tons of work. It should be fun though. They should prove themselves with time. Some people are in such a hurry through life that they believe there isn’t time; however they don’t realize that without relationships life would be pointless. You have high points and low points from all different viewpoints. Within them all the important thing is to see the troubles through as well as to learn from the mistakes which enable your personal as well as relational improvement of them. Do not end it in anger, end on a positive note, you are in total control of it. It is true that you may not feel that way, but no one no matter how intellectual they are, or of any other intelligence out there could take your personal power away. Always be pleasant, for that is all you can control.

You can’t control others, in any way, shape or form. Whatever you do they still have their individuality intact. It is impervious to all assaults however positive or negative without the individuals consent. So why do we even bother? Anyone can end an argument not only the person who started it. Your power can never be taken away. In order to use it, you just have to recognize that you have it, believe you can use it, and implement it.

It’s true; relationships are one of the hardest things to master. All the expectations and interactions make it extremely complicated. Not to mention the whole intimate encounters which are extremely intricate and should be handled with care on their own? I believe good friendships are well worth the struggle, which they incur.

Why do we all play hard to get as well as other games? Why is this behavior acceptable, I thought we were adults? I think we should act that way to maintain the balance of the relationship if that is what we all want.

If we are constantly truthful we will be much happier. They’ll be people who will turn from you, and those who won’t you want. There will be a lot of pleasure as well. Subconsciously though most, if not all of us believe no one will like us for what we truly are, maybe you yourself don’t even know yourself really or just forgot, because you were putting up this perfect image, everyone wanted to see or so you thought. But let me let you in on a little secret, everyone is afraid they will not be accepted until they accept themselves. Do not maintain this uncaring reputation, because the only one you’ll end up severely hurting is yourself. You started this repetition of a reputation when you were young, because you wanted to be accepted. You brainwashed yourself into believing it. You have lost the greatest treasure in the entire world, yourself. It is not that difficult to remember, just look within yourself and find that frightened individual you know and love and start communicating with that individual. Do not worry about your reputation; this is important for your own personal growth. Every time we get started in an emotional or personality game, we should stop ourselves. We all have the strength to st the manipulation game; we just have to believe in ourselves.